What Is Bullying?
- Bullying and bullying: a common pattern in school age children
- The Effects of Bullying on Children'S Social Skills
- Collective Bully
- Bullying about a lot of things
- The Pain of Being Hurted
- The psychological makeup of bullies
- The Effect of School Reputation on Bully Behavior
- The Impact of Bullying on Children's Health
Bullying and bullying: a common pattern in school age children
School aged children are often aggressive in their behavior and this can be a symptom of a power imbalance. The behavior can be repeated over time. Kids who are bullied and bully others may have long-term problems.
The Effects of Bullying on Children'S Social Skills
The effects of any form of harassment can be immediate, medium and long-term. Conflict and fights between people are not considered to be a form of bullied. Children and young people are still learning and practicing social skills.
Being given a label can make it hard to change. If they observe students being aggressive, teachers, school staff and parents can intervene. The message to the whole school community is that the students are being condoned for their behavior.
Collective bully tactics are employed by more than one individual. Collective bully is a term that can encompass any of the individual types of bully. The behavior of trollers on social media is usually done by sponsored astroturfers.
Children who are bullied often show physical or emotional signs, such as being afraid to attend school, complaining of headaches or a loss of appetite, and reluctance to go out in public for fear of being seen by their bully. Gay bashing is the act of attacking someone because they are gay, but trans bashing is committed because of the person's gender identity. It is not isolated and is typically ongoing.
People try to respond in a variety of ways, from ignoring it to confronting the bully or turning to an authority figure. Parents in child or adolescent situations, supervisors, human-resources staff or parent-bodies are some of the authority figures that can play an important role. Authority figures can be influential in creating an environment where there is no more harassment.
People acting as authority figures are untrained and unqualified, and can make the situation worse. The authority figures can be seen supporting the people doing the harassment, facilitating it continuing and increasing the isolation of the target. Some of the most effective ways to respond are to create an environment where harmful behavior won't happen.
Information or communication technologies such as instant messaging, chat, text messages, email and social networking sites can be used to bully. It can be anonymous, can reach a wide audience, and can be difficult to remove, but it has many similarities to offline bully. People who bully off-line are also cyberbully.
People bully for different reasons. Those who bully persistently are likely to do so in order to dominate others and improve their social status. They may have high self esteem, show little regret for their actions, and don't see bully as morally wrong.
Bullying about a lot of things
A person can be bullied about a lot of things, including their race, religion, size, body shape, and even their sex, as well as how they look, sound, or speak.
The Pain of Being Hurted
When someone is being hurt by words or actions on purpose, it feels bad and it's hard to stop.
The psychological makeup of bullies
The pattern of being bullied is a unique one, and it affects those who are smaller, weaker, younger or more vulnerable than the bully. The deliberate targeting of those of lesser power distinguishes bully from garden-variety aggression. The internet makes it more distressing for people to be bullied, although most of it occurs in and around school.
The National Center for Education Statistics says that 20 percent of students are being bullied. Boys and girls are equally likely to be treated badly. Research shows that bullies have a psychological makeup.
They lack prosocial behavior, are untroubled by anxiety, and do not understand others' feelings. They have a cognitive feature that makes them paranoid, and they often make enemies in neutral situations. Others may not like them, but they typically see themselves in a positive light.
People who bully tend to have strained relationships with their parents. The bullies pick on everyone up to about 7. They single out kids to prey on.
The process of shopping for submissive victims is done to determine which children would make the submissive victims. Bullies like victims who are upset when they are picked on and who do not have friends or allies. Those chosen as victims show a high degree of apprehension.
The Effect of School Reputation on Bully Behavior
The accepted definition of bullied is that of unwanted physical or verbal aggression directed at a specific person, repeated over a period, involves an imbalance of power, and acts to exclude the victim. The bully uses higher social status to exert power over the victim and to hurt them. Cyber bully is when harassment, name calling, gossiping, outing, rumor spreading, threats, or other forms of intimidation are done over the internet or in person.
Meanness does not involve an imbalance of power, and is part of initiation of the victim into a group. Meanness involves behaviors between people who are not equal. Boys are more likely to engage in physical or verbal bully, while girls are more likely to engage in relational bully.
Studies show that teachers underestimate the amount of bully incidents at their school. When the bully causes injury or frequently occurs, victims of the bully only report it to school adults. Parents know their child is being bullied only a small amount of the time.
More than 40% of workers in the United States have experienced workplace harassment. More than 90 percent of working women believe they have been undermined by another woman in their careers. A woman may perceive normal supervision from another woman as being less than nurturing due to the stereotype that women should be more nurturing.
Those who witness the behavior of a bully but are not the primary bully tend to fall into the trap of peer pressure to support the behavior if they don't support it. If bystanders watch the behavior laugh about it, they are at risk of engaging in themselves being bullied. Being the victim of a bully can be a risk factor because of low understanding of emotional or social interactions, a tendency to become upset easily, or already suffering from depression or anxiety.
The Impact of Bullying on Children's Health
It is very common. At least one in three children is bullied. A lot of people experience being bullied for six months or more.
There are thousands of sessions a year with children related to bullied. Boys bully more than girls. The impact of being bullied is huge.
It can cause unhappiness and distress. The effects of being bullied at school can last into adulthood. In the long term, workplace harassment can affect physical and mental health.
It can cause problems if you have a lot of time off work. People of any age should not respond to posts that are offensive and should save the evidence. It should be reported to a teacher, parent or the police.
It is possible to report the incidence of bully to the social media network. Email addresses can be blocked to prevent them from being used for bad messages. The law requires schools and workplaces to have plans in place to prevent bullied students.