What Is Peer Pressure?
- How to Survive Peer Pressure
- What to do if things get serious
- The Pressure of Your Peers
- How to Say No To Peer Pressure
- Positive Behaviors in a Group
- Why should you take extra measures to protect yourself from peer pressure?
- Peer Pressure in Children and Teens
- Positive peer pressure can help people stop smoking and drinking
How to Survive Peer Pressure
Peer pressure is often thought of as a negative thing, but in reality it's not always a bad thing. Peer pressure can be used to influence people. Learning about acceptable group norms can be a positive part of learning how to live with other people.
Some forms of peer pressure can be harder to spot than others. Being able to identify signs of peer pressure may help you initiate a supportive conversation. Most kids are sensitive to being picked on, made fun of, or ostracized, and they have a strong desire to fit in.
They're eager to do things their peers tell them to do. Peers have been shown to have a significant role influencing prosocial behaviors. Young people are more likely to engage in positive and altruistic behavior when their peers endorse it.
Your child's peers will play a bigger role in their life as they grow older. Friends can influence everything from what kind of music they listen to how they talk. It's important to prepare for peer pressure.
Being able to spot signs of peer pressure will allow you to intervene when you notice that someone you care about is headed down a bad path. Talk to your kids about peer pressure. Help your child to think independently and say no by teaching them how to do that.
What to do if things get serious
Trying to fit in with a group can turn sour, but making good mates is important. Giving in to friends' pressure to do something you wouldn't normally do can leave you feeling guilty, regretful, ashamed, embarrassed or even frightened. What to do if things get serious is included in the guide.
The Pressure of Your Peers
When you were a kid, your parents usually chose your friends, put you in play groups or arrange play dates with children they liked. You decide who your friends are and what groups you spend time with as you get older. Your peers play a bigger role in your life as you become more independent.
You may spend more time with your peers than with your parents and siblings as a result of school and other activities. You may feel so connected to your peers that they are like an extended family, because you'll probably develop close friends with them. You know that the teen years can be hard.
You're trying to figure out who you are, what you believe, what you're good at, and what your responsibilities are. The stresses in your life can come from your peers. They may try to get you to do things you're not comfortable with, such as taking a dangerous risk when driving a car, or having sex before you feel ready.
People may feel pressure to conform so they fit in or are accepted, or they may not feel awkward or uncomfortable. People look to others for clues about what is and isn't acceptable when they are unsure of what to do. At some point, nearly everyone ends up in a sticky peer pressure situation.
You have to make decisions that are difficult and unpopular, no matter how well you know your friends or how smart you are. It may be simple to resist the urge to spend your babysitting money on a new mp3 player. It could be that you decide to take a stand that makes you look uncool.
How to Say No To Peer Pressure
Peer Pressure is when a person feels like they have to do something for a friend. Peer pressure can be positive or negative. If one kid smokes but their friend is into smoking, the pressure on their friend to do it is greater.
Peer pressure can lead to bad decisions. It can ruin a person's life if others get them to do it. Most kids don't know how to say no to peer pressure because they feel like they will be picked on or not want to be friends with people.
They do it because they want to be popular and cool and they don't want to stop. Most of the popular kids are mean to others and trying to get them to be like them, which is not good for them. If a group of friends are drinking and one of them offers a drink to a kid, they are usually labeled a whimp or a scardy cat, so kids are afraid of what others might say.
Sometimes a kid is called a snitch for telling on someone, but only because they were trying to protect themselves. It is a common belief that most parents teach their children not to give into peer pressure, but once one kid starts picking on them it makes them feel like they need to change so they don't get picked on by that kid. Peer pressure can be good or bad.
Positive Behaviors in a Group
A group dynamic can be positive if the behaviors are healthy and age appropriate. Young teens can be influenced to study if a peer group wants to make good grades. A less outgoing teenager may be influenced to open a savings account if a popular friend wants to earn money and save to buy a car. If the football team takes a pledge to abstain from drinking alcohol to focus on having a winning season, other students may follow suit.
Why should you take extra measures to protect yourself from peer pressure?
Why is it necessary to do an in-depth examination? Failing to comprehend the causes of peer pressure will likely make you in a tough situation unable to avoid it. Without a thoughtful analysis of the effects of peer pressure, you may not know the benefits. It is not unusual for teens and young adults to be more vulnerable to peer pressure, but it is important to observe it at your school, social group, or sports team.
Peer Pressure in Children and Teens
Your peers are people you spend time with. They are usually of the same age group in children and teens. Peers may be determined by shared interests or professions in adults.
Peer pressure occurs when an individual experiences persuasion to join a peer group or adopt similar values. As children grow, the level of peer influence increases, and resistance to peer influence decreases, as they gain independence from the family or caregivers. Pre-school children are less influenced by peer pressure than older children.
The influence of peers increases with more social interactions outside the home. Peer pressure is not positive or negative. Peer influences are closely linked to academic achievement.
The research shows that the peer group with whom the high school student spends the most time is more likely to have a higher level of academic success than the family. Students who spent time with an academically oriented peer group and whose families were not supportive, got better grades than those who started high school with the same grades. Students who spent time with peers who did not orientation toward academic excellence performed less well.
Peer pressure is associated with at-risk behaviors such as cigarette smoking, drug use, sexual activity, fighting, and shoplifting, in all ethnic and racial groups. Peer group values and attitudes are more important than family values influencing teenage alcohol use. The more accepting peers are of risky behavior, the more likely a person is to do the same thing.
Positive peer pressure can help people stop smoking and drinking
Positive peer pressure is on the other side. Being encouraged by friends to do well in school or sport is a example. Positive peer pressure may encourage people to stop smoking.